Tuition, Pottery & Afrikaans
Summer of Celebration Series …
Celebrating the Faithfulness of God in Ordinary Places
The Ministry People Don’t Always See
There are stories that look small on the surface but carry the weight of heaven when you understand what is underneath them.
This is one of those stories.
When most people think about missionaries, they often picture church services, feeding programs, evangelism, orphan care, or ministry in distant villages. They think about the visible ministry moments — the things that feel obviously spiritual.
But ministry is also grocery bills.
Housing.
Insurance.
Transportation.
Date nights that help preserve a marriage.
Plane tickets home.
And yes… school tuition.
The Cost of Building a Life Overseas
In South Africa, school is not free.
Families pay tuition for their children to attend school, and for missionary families living overseas, that cost can become overwhelming quickly.
Elias and Tanisha made the decision to homeschool the boys early on, but quickly realized that they needed community in this new country. Like many parents, they were trying to balance education, culture adjustment, language barriers, and emotional health during a massive transition.
A pivot for the good of the boys required applications, visa changes, paperwork, and of course, money.
The adjustment was instant, but the transition was necessary, and the boys began attending an international school.
Over time, they realized one son learned better at home but still enjoyed the benefits of extracurricular activities. Another adjustment was made, returning him home for school while leaving one child enrolled.
Their youngest son is currently in fifth grade and doing beautifully.
He is learning Afrikaans, making friends, joining after-school activities like pottery and soccer, and building a life in a country that once felt completely foreign.
This school year alone costs approximately $6,000.
For many families, that would already feel substantial. For missionaries, it can feel nearly impossible.
What Many People Don’t Realize About Missionary Life
Here is something many people do not realize:
Missionaries in South Africa are generally not permitted to take jobs that would remove employment opportunities from local citizens.
That means they are unable to simply “pick up extra work” when finances become tight. They cannot work evenings to supplement income. They cannot grab a second job to cover tuition or medical bills.
They rely entirely on the provision of God through the generosity of His people.
Everything.
Food.
Housing.
Clothing.
Schooling.
Transportation.
Medical care.
Travel between countries.
Family needs.
Ministry expenses.
Everything.
And while God is faithful, missionaries often carry the hidden emotional weight of continually raising support while simultaneously trying to minister to others.
Every hour spent fundraising is an hour not spent discipling someone.
Every support letter takes time away from family.
Every financial conversation carries vulnerability.
Yet people cannot participate in a story they have never been invited into.
That is part of why awareness matters.
The Theology of Generosity
Somewhere along the way, parts of the modern church became uncomfortable with giving unless it was attached to an emergency or dramatic need.
We like tangible outcomes.
We like measurable impact.
We want reassurance that our money is being spent “correctly.”
And while wisdom and accountability absolutely matter, Scripture teaches something deeper about generosity.
Giving has never only been about the recipient.
It is also about the obedience and trust of the giver.
Throughout Scripture, God invited His people to participate in His work through generosity. The early church shared freely so there would be no lack among them. Paul regularly taught about supporting those doing ministry work. Jesus Himself was financially supported by people who believed in the mission.
The Kingdom of God has always moved forward through people willing to say yes.
Not every gift looks dramatic.
Sometimes ministry looks like paying tuition.
Sometimes it looks like buying groceries.
Sometimes it looks like helping a weary missionary family breathe for another month.
One Gift That Changed Everything
And this spring, that is exactly what happened.
Just one week before tuition was due, someone donated the full $6,000 needed for the school year, simply saying:
“It is unacceptable for a child not to be able to attend school.”
One gift.
One act of obedience.
One burden lifted.
Because of that generosity, a little boy gets to stay in the school where he is thriving. He gets to continue building friendships, learning language and culture, playing soccer, creating pottery, and growing roots in the place God has called his family.
And perhaps equally important, his parents get to exhale.
They get to spend less time worrying about tuition and more time ministering to people. More time parenting. More time serving. More time living out the calling God placed on their lives.
That is ministry too.
The Quiet Ways the Kingdom Moves Forward
Sometimes the greatest Kingdom impact happens quietly, behind the scenes, far away from a platform or spotlight.
A donor says yes.
A child stays in school.
Missionaries remain encouraged.
The Gospel continues moving forward.
That is worth celebrating.
And maybe this story is also an invitation.
Not necessarily to give to every need you see, but to ask the Lord what part He is asking you to play in the stories unfolding around you.
Because missionaries should never have to carry the burden alone.
The Church was always meant to go together.